I think people really under estimate just how important a good relationship with your parents is. I have friends that barley speak to their parents and when they do its just basic stuff. I absolutely love being close with my mom and dad. Honestly i don’t know what i would do if i didn’t have such an amazing relationship with them. They give me the best advice and i feel like i could come to them with anything that is on my mind and they will give me the advice and help that i need. They talk to me like I’m a real person and not a child, and that really helps. They don’t sugar coat things or try to just make me feel better even if I’m wrong. When I’m wrong they tell me, they will say “I know you are upset but try seeing it from the other side” and because they did this it has made me a much better person. They taught me that sometimes when people are mean its because something else is going on and not to just hate them and never forgive them because one day i might have something really hard going on and i might do something not nice and hopefully my friends will understand just like i did, They showed me it was ok to make mistakes, and it was ok to mess up sometimes and you might hurt people every once in awhile but it was the way to make up for it every day and its about how that mistake can make you better. I find that I’m really hard on myself a lot and they bring me down from that, they show me that if i lay off myself a bit i will feel a lot better. I can sit down and have real conversations with them because they are more then my parents, they are my friends too. We sit and goof around and have a good time, and sometimes we sit and i cry and i talk about my break ups, my friend problems, and anything that would ever possibly make me sad. They tell me about their past and the mistakes they made and how it changed them. Without them I don’t know who i would be. I like to think i would be the same person but i wouldn’t. They have made me goofy,compassionate, stubborn,friendly, forgiving,dramatic,emotional and so so much more.I don’t think i thank them enough for everything that they do for me but i don’t think there will ever be enough thank you’s in the world. Im blessed to have such awesome parents and i hope that when i have a family of my own that I’m like them, I feel bad for the kids that don’t have good relationships with there parents because they are really missing out. Your mom and dad will be the best friends you will ever have because they will ALWAYS be there for you and never hurt you.
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